Sunday 28 October 2012

That Solange

I know that this song have been out for a while now, but I simply have to share it with you, cause I'm so in love with it.... From the video to the vocals to the beat - Simply perfection! She never disappoint me whenever it come to her music....
It has this African touch and gives me this summer feeling every time i listen to it...  It's a feel-good song and has a really great vibe!  defiantly on my replay :)

Saturday 20 October 2012

He inked it and listened to Beyonce

.....
Don’t treat me to the things of this world

I’m not that kind of girl

Your love is what I prefer, what I deserve

Here is a man that makes me, then takes me
And delivers me to a destiny, to infinity and beyond
Pull me into your arms
Say I’m the one you WANT
......

June 11th was the day Alexander popped the question and on the 13th September we got matching tattoo's with the number 11 :) cute right hehe...

Now that we are engaged the wedding and all that is not something that we are in a hurry to do, even though people may think so just because we are engaged at a "young age". We wanna take our time and enjoy being young (and stupid).
Marriage is something serious for me. It is something that I'd like to have time to think about, so I don't end up like one of those people who get divorced.  It's not that I don't love my man (only God knows how much I love him) but  I think that marriage requires a mature mentality and your heart at the right place... It should not be a spontaneous thing or arranged it should just  feel natural. Sadly there is a loooot of people in this world  who are getting married for the wrong reasons and I simply don't wanna be a part of it!
I personally want to grown as an individual and as a woman in able to give my all to the person I love and know that I'm getting married for all the right reasons -honesty-commitment-passion-


The how it happened part 


So, he came and met my mother and told her, ‘I'm in love with your daughter, I want to spend the rest of my life with her. We want to live together… So I want to ask you for her hand’ My mom was pretty cool about it and gave him her blessings. Nevertheless, one day out of nowhere while we were having a deep conversation he asked me to marry for the second time and I said yes. Later on that week  he told he parents that we were engaged. 
And to mark the date we got the number 11 tattooed, why?  well because it's a "ring" we never can take of, it will be with me no matter what, just to remind me of that my love for him is something that will stay with me forever.

He managed to surprise me again the day after his birthday, by giving me his grandmothers wedding ring :0 I seriously was about to die  at this point, just to think that I had inherit something out of true love.
His grandparent met right about the same age as us and they were together for about 47 years and for me that is true love :) And that's why I'm so luck to carry something that symbolizes that kind of love that I want to have with him. 


This is such a bliss and it's gotta be the most romantic thing a guy has ever done for me.  And I truly  hope that our love will last forever, as I at this point can't see a life without him, as he still that guy who can give me  butterflies and make me fall in love over and over again. 





I really hope for everyone(every girl) that they will  get to experience love like this, cause there is no greater feeling that love. It keeps you smiling and alive, and you feel like you can conquer anything  in this world.... 
Now it's been 18 months since we've been in love 
And you keep doin' things to show your proud of 
Thirty beauties in the room only me you see 
The confidence you give, lives in me I vow to never break your heart or never let you down 
For better or worse, I'll always be around And with you here, to share my life so complete 
And because of you I know how it feels to be

Friday 5 October 2012

Coffee to go with a permanent smile

I've never thought that I would ever drink coffee, matter of fact I hate the smell and the taste of it! However I do remember  the first time I took a sip of it, and that was back in 9th grade when I had to prepare for my chemistry exams. It tasted like .... but I had to keep myself up.  Ever since I've had some coffee whenever it was necessary. Lately my day starts at 6.30 /7.00 and to get used to that I need to keep up my energy -.-' cause working in bakery is actually hard cause you have to be active all the time, that makes Coffee a part of my breakfast and you will find me i a coffee store before heading to work -  it's not that I  love it, but I gatta do what I gatta do. Haha :)

Being active means to keep smiling too and that can be hard. I mean it not that I'm a negative person or something like that but whenever I'm stressing or concentrated I tend to lose my smile even though I'm happy, I guess I just have a neutral face, and a lot of people can assume that I'm snobbish or moody(seriously sorry of my life).  I'm no robot, I was not programmed to keep smiling -.-' lol
A lot of people get so offended when they get  their bread  without a smile from me and I can truly understand - but come on, give sister a break.   
I'm kind  and humble when it comes to the customers but they still get the wrong impression if I forget to smile.  I think this have to do with the danish culture being so obsessed with getting people  to be more socialized(which includes smiling), sometimes they overdo it and it ends up being irritating.